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Becky London's avatar

This is wonderful - as someone who started as a “mature” woman, the ageism I encountered really stunned me. The reminder that competition is intense for everyone is sobering and useful. And thank God for “don’t like it, don’t do it”! Thank you for writing this.

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Sara Sheckells's avatar

This is a subject I often get really hung up on. Thank you for putting it out there.

I became a narrator due to a desire to work with kids and YA books. I was told by a casting director from a kids publisher, early in my career, that I wouldn’t get work in those genres because I sound “too mature.” Years later, in a workshop where I read for an accomplished YA narrator, I got, “You really understand and can convey the voices of kids and teens…you do a lot of YA work don’t you?” - (Um, no, ‘cuz I thought I couldn’t due to what I was told previously!)

The first big pub title I was cast in was a memoir of an 89 year old (I was 46.) From there, my next 1/2 dozen titles or so featured MCs who were 60+. It baffled me because I knew there were narrators who were authentically those ages.

I feel my age the most in real life settings; where those in casting are frequently half my age. I hate pitching myself - period; more so in person - and - for some reason, pitching to those much younger than I can feel phony or desperate. Is that weird?

I’ve gotten more confident in my vocal range, but still know I will never Tik my Tok or narrate live - and I wonder how much that may hold me back. I appreciate the “Don’t like it? Don’t do it “ note here.

The reminder of the significant number of women narrators helps too. I’m working on discerning what might be age related vs. what could be my introversion/dip in confidence. It’s all quite the jumble of threads to untangle! Thanks again for this!

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